For Women Who Are Difficult To Love

Source: [VIMEO] For Women Who Are Difficult to Love by Warsan Shire

You are a horse running alone
and he tries to tame you
compares you to an impossible highway
to a burning house
says you are blinding him
that he could never leave you
forget you
want anything but you
you dizzy him, you are unbearable
every woman before or after you
is doused in your name
you fill his mouth
his teeth ache with memory of taste
his body just a long shadow seeking yours
but you are always too intense
frightening in the way you want him
unashamed and sacrificial
he tells you that no man can live up to the one who
lives in your head
and you tried to change didn’t you?

closed your mouth more
tried to be softer
less volatile, less awake
but even when sleeping you could feel
him travelling away from you in his dreams
so what did you want to do love
split his head open?
you can’t make homes out of human beings
someone should have already told you that
and if he wants to leave
then let him leave
you are terrifying
and strange and beautiful
something not everyone knows how to love.

For Women Who Are Difficult To Love via @theMagunga

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Phanis Obwaya

And how many men really know how to love this kind of woman? Do they even exist?
Nice piece though. I love it.


Warsan always gives me the goose bumps (in a good way)


I’m still waiting for that man who won’t try and tame me *head-desk-repeat*


Through you I met Warsan Shire, thank you


It is a pity I had not heard of Warsan Shire before. This piece had me quiet and staring into space for a while. Beautiful is an understatement.

Cindy Ajumbo

Love love this.

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